Proactive Friend Finder INSTRUCTIONS:Complete the 10 questions below to get clear on 1) what you're looking for in a friendship, 2) what YOU bring to friendship and 3) identify ideas and actions to find potential friends - pro-actively.1. Why is having friends important to me right now? (Getting clear on WHY we want something helps motivate and inspire us.)2. What are the top 3 qualities I like in my IDEAL friends?3. Thinking about good friends I have, or had in the past, what do I value MOST about them?4. What are the outcomes (specific results) I would like from having new friendships? 5. What 3 qualities must my friends NOT have?(it's good to know what to avoid as well as what to look for)a.b.c.6. What special qualities do I bring to a friendship?How am I a great friend to others? 7. What activities or kinds of things do I like to do with friends?a.b.c.8. What could get in the way of me having successful friendships 9. Where could I meet potential friends?(brainstorm & list all your ideas, no matter how 'realistic' they are)10. Who, that I already know, are potential friends?(Consider people at work, a club or group, a fellow volunteer, someone at the gym/a class or anyone else that you often see or run into) Finally, what actions will you take to get moving?Ideas include making a phone call, starting a new hobby, activity or class, attending an event or asking someone to go for a movie, pizza or coffee. Have an idea you've been procrastinating over? Now's the time to do it… Simply write 3 actions in the space below - and be as specific as you can. Then do them.ActionBy when